BRA - IN PIEDMONT
From Milan we took a regional train west to Turin (Torino) and then changed trains and headed south. We changed trains again

in Carmagnola and arrived at the Bra station around 2:30. At Bra we pulled out our trusty Google map and started walking toward the hotel. This is the town where Damiano and Oksana are getting married and they gave us the impression that this was a 'vil

lage' -- instead, it is fairly big (maybe about the size of Fulton) and very pretty. They don't have a metro but they do have little city busses. Bra is somewhat famous as the place where the "Slow Food Movement" got started and there is a culinary university in town and the Slow Food institute is just outside of town. Once we got our bearings,

we dragged our lug
gage through town and found our hotel, the Nuovo Hotel Giardini on Piazza Settembre XX. The hotel is family operated and they did everything to make our stay comfortable and enjoyable. This is where we met up with our fellow American travelers so the five of us sort of took over the place...but with the willing participation of Sergio and Cico, the two brothers who own the hotel along with their sister. Jill and I moved into our room and got settled and then took a walk out into the town. We met up with Tom and Karia on the street (called Corso Garibaldi, of course) and found Donna a little later. I needed gelato so Jill and I wandered around town until we found a gelato place. English is not spoken as widely in Bra as in the other larger cities but we did OK...I was able to get gelato, an important test of my language skills.
After a lit

tle rest in the room we met Donna. Tom and Karia and headed out for supper. The restaurant was nice but our waitress did not understand English so we had some problems making our order. We asked if there was a single antipasto selection that all five of us could share...meaning a single selection. We asked in as many ways as we could and she seemed like she understood. We made our main course selections and got some wine. Then the food started coming...we got five antipasto plates...apparently at the waitress or chef's selection -- she must have thought that we wanted her to choose five dishes for us. We already had fresh bread and bread sticks. We got something that resembled a ham salad, followed by slices of beef with green pesto, followed by anchovies, followed by ham with a cream topping, followed by a potato salad. We were well fed but now our main course was coming out. Jill and I had gnocchi with pesto sauce. We all shared a second bottle of wine and finished off with a sample of grappa. All of the food was good and not as expensive as we feared, considering we got five antipastos when we wanted only one. I think it came to about 30€ per person....expensive but not way out of line considering we had two bottles of wine and a grappa.
This was going to be the "Girls Night Out" with Donna, Karia and Jill spending some time with Oksana. Our dinner took longer than planned so they had a night "In" and did girl things and worked on their nails. Tom, Damia

no and I tried to sit quietly and be polite but eventually we decided to take Damiano downstairs to the bar area and let the girls do their thing. Cico was behind the bar talking with a local patron so we had him pour us two grappas (Damiano chose not to have any) and we spent the rest of the evening just talking about various important topics and enjoying the grappa. Eventually, at midnight, Cico announced that he was closing down and going home to bed so we went back upstairs and rejoined the merriment. We had a good evening and eventually we all headed back to our rooms and Damiano and Oksana headed back home.
Jill and I overslept and missed breakfast the next day (Saturday) but Cico and Sergio made coffee and provided a couple pastries left over from breakfast. Our first task was to go to walk up to the train station and buy our tickets for the trip to Perugia on Monday. Tom went along because he was trying to find a rail rout from Lake Maggiore to Frankfort in Germany through Switzerland. He and Karia are flying home from Germany after visiting friends there. He didn't have any luck with the station attendant but we got our tickets bought without a problem. Apparently crossing through Switzerland and into Germany is a problem unless you go through Milan, which was out of the way for them. We next went and found the Avis car rental office and Tom confirmed his car rental reservation...he and Karia are going to visit local wineries and take a trip to the Italian Riviera for a day or two before heading to Lake Maggiore. We headed back toward the hotel but stopped at a travel agency and Tom inquired again about the train rout to Frankfort. Again it seemed he was going to have to backtrack to Milan. The agent knew Damiano getting married and she went to school with him....she knew him as "the math genius" which is a pretty good description, it seems. We told her that he was marrying another math genius.
We headed back to the hotel and Jill and I had lunch with Donna at a sidewalk cafe. Again we had good food and a nice bottle of local wine. Donna was going to go to Perugia with us and then go to Milan for a couple days but she couldn't get the Milan stage worked out and we couldn't recommend the Hotel Ritter for more than one night. After lunch we walked around town a while before heading back to the hotel. At 5 PM we all got together to meet Damiano and Oksana for gelato and to meet Carmen and Jenny who just got into town and were staying at another hotel. We were not sure where we were going to meet up but we finally got together and had a very enjoyable time visiting and eating some great gelato concoctions.
Jill headed back to the hotel and I had dinner with Tom and Karia at the same sidewalk café where I had lunch earlier. We had a couple half-bottles of wine and some good food…I had a veal dish and had some caffe afterward. We paid the bill and our host brought out some grappa for u

s to enjoy – at no charge. Karia kept the bottle as a souvenir. After dinner we headed back to the hotel. Jill and I were watching TV and Donna called and wanted to talk about her changing travel plans. We headed back out to the sidewalk café – 3rd time for me – and ordered a couple beers. Donna had Damiano research some options for her visit to Milan but she wasn’t happy with any of it and wasn’t going to be able to see the Last Supper because it was booked until September. That was her main reason for going to Milan. She decided to stay in Perugia a few days after Jill and I went back north to Venice. We talked about what options she had and the possibility of her visiting Assisi for a day and maybe Siena. We talked for a while but it looked like the restaurant was closing so we headed back to the hotel.
THE WEDDING
Sunday was the wedding day. We made it to breakfast this time so Sergio and Cico didn't have to do anything special for us. They are very helpful and speak enough English and we speak enough Italian that we did OK - more or less. The wedding was at 11 AM but we wanted to get there early for pictures and to see the church. This is a famous church site - the Santuario della Madonna dei Fiori - built in 1626 is on the site of an apparition of the Virgin Mary in December of 1336 that resulted flowers blooming (Hawthorn) in the dead of winter, continuing almost every December since.
Donna was already gone by 8 AM to help Oksana. The rest of the Americans were ready on time and our hotel got us a taxi to the church (and paid for it). The church is impressive and very ornate. A string quartet was playing classical music in the sanctuary as we arrived and the b

ride and groom and the groom's family arrived as the other guests were beginning to appear. We met Tito and Rosanna, Damiano's parents. Damiano and Oksana were dressed in traditional Ukrainian wedding clothes and were all smiles. Everyone else wore regular clothes. Jill, serving as the Maid of Honor, was wearing her pretty green dress and there were two groomsmen in regular suits and Damiano's sister, Federica, wore a pretty pastel dress as the bride's maid. The w

edding began with Damiano escorting his mom into the church. Oksana was escorted by Carmen, her old math advisor from Mizzou. The hour-long ceremony was conducted in Italian but there were some parts in English and in Ukrainian. It was a mass so we could sort of follow along. Oksana sang a song that she composed for the occasion that was very nice. The couple were showered with rice by family and friends as they left the church.
After the rice throwing, photographs and congratulations we all headed out to a local winery for the reception (Palazzo Rossa). The musicians were there as well so we started off with classical music. Later we got into more modern music and a little dancing. The main thing about an Italian wedding seems to be the food. It started outside on the lawn with wine and punch with canopies and small puff pastry "specialità", fruit, anchovies and sausages in pastry along with fried frog legs. Once we got inside we found our table along with more wine and more food started to appear on the b

uffet table. As best as I can remember we had between five and seven courses. Pork rolls, salmon, various antipastos, roasted peppers stuffed with cream cheese came next. Then we had beef and fish with risotto with various accompaniments. Dessert wine came out next followed by gelato and fruit. Then we got a sweet cream pie in a puff phyllo pastry crust (like baklava). Finally a coffee bar was set up with espresso and various digestivos, grappas and other special wines and brandies. My memory is blurred and my description doesn't begin to do this food marathon justice -- we ate for most of the afternoon and some guests bailed out early meaning there was more for us. Oksana and Damiano danced several dances and a few of the Americans also performed along with Federica. The wedding was great and the reception was very enjoyable and we met some wonderful and gracious people.
Tito drove us back to the hotel and gave us all a hug and a cheerful goodbye -- he is a very reserved man so I take that as a sign that we were very much liked and he was happy to have us as guests at the wedding. Our communication was limited but we were able to express our appreciation as well. I really like Damiano's parents and now I'm friends with Rosanna on Facebook (!). It was raining slightly when we got back to the hotel but we all needed to get out and walk off some of the food we had eaten. After changing clothes we got our umbrellas and rain jackets and went out for a walk. This was our last night in Bra and we settled up our bill with Sergio and Cico and asked about an early breakfast -- our train left Bra at about 7:30 in the morning on Monday.
THE TRAINS
As usual they had everything under control. Breakfast was ready when we needed it and Sergio gave us a ride to the train station. Our train was on time, as usual, and we started off on our trip to Perugia. This is a trip of about 350 miles if you go by highway. By train it is longer because we had to first take a regional train to Torino where we caught the EuroStar that headed south to Florence through Milan and Bologna. The stretch from Bologna to Florence was mostly underground -- Italian

engineers love tunnels and we went under the Apenine mountain range. In Florence we took another regional train toward Perugia. The ticket indicated that we needed to change trains at Terentola station south of Cortona (which is a common train change). Jill was watching the countryside and when we got close she told us to get off the train, which we did. Then, standing on the platform she realized that we were not at the right station so in a panic she shouted to get back on the train, which we did. We were one station too early. We hauled all of our heavy suitcases off the train and then turned around and - with super human strength - hauled

them all back on the train in a matter of a few seconds. Our stop came up next so we climbed off the train only to realize after it left that the ticket was wrong and the train was going to go directly to Perugia and we should have stayed on. There had been a schedule change the day between when we bought the ticket and when we made the trip. So, now we needed to take another train into Perugia and we found out it would be leaving in about an hour. This was the Umbrian regional train and it was very new and quite stylish for a little train -- more like a longish commuter trolley than a train. We discovered that the train was sitting at the station and originating there so we went and got on. The conductor seemed a little confused by our ticket but Jill explained what happened and he was OK with it.
We rode on twelve trains of just about every shape and size during our trip through Italy. Italian trains are fast, cheap and on time. They are sometimes crowded but usually there is space for you and your luggage by your seat. Sometimes there are designated luggage spaces other than the overhead racks. Some trains have first and second class but we always opted for the cheaper second class and seats are reserved on EuroStar trains but you get a seat choice when you buy your ticket. The boxy-looking regional trains get up to about 90 mph between cities. The streamlined EuroStar trains go well over 100 mph -- I thin

k ours was going about 140 mph and they can get up to 180+ mph. The EuroStar trains go so fast that the turns are banked. The passenger trains in Italy do not compete with freight trains for routes and I think I only saw one freight train during our stay.
There are plenty of options for going from one place to another -- we usually had about 5 or 6 possible trains to select from when making connections and buying tickets. Tickets are purchased from a ticket agent who might speak English or from an automated ticket machine that searches out all available options and then presents you with the various route selections -- in English. Tickets are good for a long time -- ours would be good until September -- but you must date-stamp the ticket before you get on the train at a little yellow validation box or you will be subject to a hefty fine. Although we didn't have a problem, occasionally the train workers will go on strike which will last for about a day but that can mess up your schedule if you are not flexible. Apparently there is some sort of connection problems if you are trying to take a train to another country. The connections do not seem to be very convenient and you may need to go through a major hub.